Today is a year since.  Jody, Adam, and I flew in and visited the cemetery in Peabody.  We’re back in L.A.  We stayed in Boston less than a day, and had but two purposes.  We went to phyllis’ father and phyl’s stone.  We saw many rocks and shells recently put there.  We know we are fortunate to have loving family and friends in Boston. We had an unveiling in June.  If we’d told or visited anyone, we may have hurt feelings of others.  This one was for us.